Are you ready to get hitched?

You love being single, completely footloose and insane in every way. Well who doesn't? Freedom is the best emotion in the whole world and being single is even groovier. With so much on your plate right now- career, friends, parties and traveling every picturesque corner of the world, you seems to have overlooked the "big day". Well, may be your loathing favorites in the family are right about the epidemic called marriage, may be they smelled it before you could, may be- ITS TIME. On the other hand, you are seeing someone for quite a while now and haven't even thought of walking the aisle yet. Now that you have chosen me to sail through this fuss lets take your special guy under analysis with below listed points-

Most crucial- You know him well
The best way to find out finest things in the chosen one is to spend time together. Do whatever helps you come close to each other go out, meet often, have dinner or shop. This will take you one step closer to figure out what you like and what you are looking for. Be friends, share thoughts and see how you feel when you are with him. This will help you realize your must haves in a life partner. If you can just never get enough of him, it’s a qualifier. If he pulls you, like a magnet, he deserves crowning glory.

Most elevating- Your favorite people dig him
Finally you want him to be an integral part of your life so it would be great if he love your buddies and they love him back. Make him meet them to see how he gels up with your favorite people overall. They know you better than anybody else so you can count on their opinion. Though few people may be unreasonably critical but if most of them say they couldn't see it work for you, find out the reason? If they love him as much as you do, he is one of your crazy kinds.

Most candid- You have chemistry out of bed too
What is more appealing than his being good in bed? The answer is off the bed chemistry. If you like, enjoy and live every moment with him and always want for more means you have a kickass connection outside the bedroom also. Time spent off the bed is equally fun. If he is not just trying to get into your shirt but loves you as a person, he is your guy.

The pragmatic- You are not looking for customization
If you are every now and then telling him what you like and what you don't, you could be suffering with self-centric syndrome. Make sure you are comfortable with his likes/ passions of course unless they are too extra terrestrial. It implies it should be even if he is a gadget freak you are a party freak, no do's and don’ts list please. He should love "you" as a package and you should adore him back in the same way. Don't try to alter him or customize according to your likes and dislikes, customization is for swanky toy brands.

Most eligible-You share similar goals
If you tie the knot with a guy who wants to travel around the globe and you have absolute differing collaterals, one of you may get disappointed. To avoid this, go for a guy who shares similar goals to ensure like-mindedness in objectives and lifelong mutual companionship. If pursuing your career or having kids is first on your list, he should back you up with his heart and soul.

Now that you have got all your answers don’t take too much time brooding over again and again. No need to be hysteric, everybody goes through pre wedding jitters, go ahead and start preparing for a new beginning. And let the wedding bells ring.

Love
Dextrous

Love illustration- For Fitoori

An artwork illustrating what "LOVE" is all about. In the age of smart phones and dangling relationship statuses this is my effort to portray the idea of going around or seeing someone. It is hand painted and illustrated with the black ink, digital version coming out soon. Don't know why, but i liked it in the black and white mode. Who will not like this concept to be lit in their living room. Yes! get ready for the "love" illustration lamp now.

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Fitoori- handpainted lamp

Live what you LOVE

This cool lamp is meant for those who romance life. For the free spirits. It gifts pink radiant ambiance to your room keeping it lively and vivid all evening. Another pick from fitoori's hand painted range it is designed your exclusive party moods also, place it in your living room as you host a perfect evening with friends and loved ones. Drop us an email on fitoori.lads@gmail.com and be the proud owner of this creative piece.

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DDLJ- Typology art

First of my efforts at creating a typology and what could match the magic of mesmerizing movie DDLJ. This s for all the girls dreaming about their prince charming. Great song, great lyrics, amazing singing by a fabulous singer. Wholesome of magic, dreams and fairy world. Soon going to get some crazy stuff rolling out from this one- Tote bags, coasters and lamps. Being a feminist, i loved the way it has finally come out. Till then live with this dose of little gyan- Love finds you, you need not find love.

Love
Dextrous

Know if he is into you

This one goes out for all my girlies, who are seeing someone and still dicey if he has fallen for her or not? Most women derive conclusions from their madly in love instincts, which is not actually bad, but those are more likely to tell you what you want to hear. Is it the truth? No, there is more to it. Don’t just put him in your possession list if you see him getting you chocolates, flowers or a surprise date. Don’t even go by your friends opinion they might have been comparing your guy with their ex’s. Its dangerous. Let MatchmeCupid take you through it, only if you are ready for it. We all know the raw gender are the “programmed creatures” but they are not zombies, they will sway signs your way, grab them. To know, if he is actually digging into you, look for these ulterior signals!

Watch his eyes- Don’t judge him when he is checking out a hot chick, guys are magnetic towards beauty, you know it. Get close enough to see his eyes closely, if his pupils dilates while talking to you he is turned on by you. It clearly says he likes your company. As you talk to him heart to heart watch his eye darts, if he is not looking straight into you eyes he might be lying.

Body language- He may not be expressive or lovey dovey types all the times so try to open your mind and read his body language. While you go out with him and he is sitting opposite to you, if he lean towards you he is interested in you. If while walking he tries to keep up pace with you he want people to know you are with him. He wants to flaunt you. He talks to you eye to eye, baby you are his priority.

Voice calls and text back- It might sound wacky. In this age of smart phones, you will get lot of signals from the way he responds to your calls. This trick tells you a lot about the guy you love. If he is into you he will call you every now and then just to hear your voice. If he is quick with his text replies, he doesn’t want to miss a moment with you. If he is taking time to reply and get back to you, may be his smart phone carries something more interesting than you. Accept it.

Indulges with you- Remembers small details about you that you might have just slipped out in a casual conversation. Be it your favorite color or coffee, he always gets it right. If he is into you he would not mind making a complete ass of himself while accompanying you to a place where he would never go on his own, he wants to spend time with you and nothing gets in his way. He is your guy if mostly you are saying YES to his random meeting plans and not always insisting him.

How is he with friends- He shows interest and spend time with your gals gang? If you just said yes, its time to be glad, he is into you! He wants to know what you like to do, how you talk when you are with your friends. Guys never introduce just any other girl they are seeing to their friends, so if he wants you to meet his friends you are the “special one”. If his friends already know who you are and you hear lines like “heard a lot about you” in the first meeting, he loves everything about you.

He takes one for a team- If he is into you, will always find ways to stuff in “we” or “us” while talking whatever may be the topic. He is eager to go to the places of your choice, even if the ambiance is all pink and scented. Your opinion counts, you are not there to just listen what and what went wrong?

Believes in your dreams- He not only says but believes in your capabilities, he is ready to share responsibilities if you have your career obligations. You are “his super women”, no under ratings here.

To know what lies behind those flattering talks spend as much time as you can with him. Whether it is a dinner date or coffee break. No pestering or pressurizing helps, if he is seriously into you he can’t possibly hide it. If you checked on all the signs listed above, he is your guy. If not, you still have to find your Mr. Perfect.

Written for Matchmecupid, read more articles about dating, love and marriages @ http://matchmecupid.com/blog/

fitoori

Finally fitoori takes off! Its been long enough that i was working on fitoori. Alike most of the genius ideas this was also framed when we three hopeless artists were told "What you guys do is kinda cool". I don't know from when i love colors, designs and art in every way around me. Like it is said sometimes even you don't know what your limits are? That's another case that i took too long to realize that. Unknowingly i sailed through all great things i wanted to do and finally found a way of taking that roller coaster fun out of my mind to the canvas of life. And now i want to paint the world. Watch out, i just picked my brush!