You love being single, completely footloose and insane in every way. Well who doesn't? Freedom is the best emotion in the whole world and being single is even groovier. With so much on your plate right now- career, friends, parties and traveling every picturesque corner of the world, you seems to have overlooked the "big day". Well, may be your loathing favorites in the family are right about the epidemic called marriage, may be they smelled it before you could, may be- ITS TIME. On the other hand, you are seeing someone for quite a while now and haven't even thought of walking the aisle yet. Now that you have chosen me to sail through this fuss lets take your special guy under analysis with below listed points-
Most crucial- You know him well
The best way to find out finest things in the chosen one is to spend time together. Do whatever helps you come close to each other go out, meet often, have dinner or shop. This will take you one step closer to figure out what you like and what you are looking for. Be friends, share thoughts and see how you feel when you are with him. This will help you realize your must haves in a life partner. If you can just never get enough of him, it’s a qualifier. If he pulls you, like a magnet, he deserves crowning glory.
Most elevating- Your favorite people dig him
Finally you want him to be an integral part of your life so it would be great if he love your buddies and they love him back. Make him meet them to see how he gels up with your favorite people overall. They know you better than anybody else so you can count on their opinion. Though few people may be unreasonably critical but if most of them say they couldn't see it work for you, find out the reason? If they love him as much as you do, he is one of your crazy kinds.
Most candid- You have chemistry out of bed too
What is more appealing than his being good in bed? The answer is off the bed chemistry. If you like, enjoy and live every moment with him and always want for more means you have a kickass connection outside the bedroom also. Time spent off the bed is equally fun. If he is not just trying to get into your shirt but loves you as a person, he is your guy.
The pragmatic- You are not looking for customization
If you are every now and then telling him what you like and what you don't, you could be suffering with self-centric syndrome. Make sure you are comfortable with his likes/ passions of course unless they are too extra terrestrial. It implies it should be even if he is a gadget freak you are a party freak, no do's and don’ts list please. He should love "you" as a package and you should adore him back in the same way. Don't try to alter him or customize according to your likes and dislikes, customization is for swanky toy brands.
Most eligible-You share similar goals
If you tie the knot with a guy who wants to travel around the globe and you have absolute differing collaterals, one of you may get disappointed. To avoid this, go for a guy who shares similar goals to ensure like-mindedness in objectives and lifelong mutual companionship. If pursuing your career or having kids is first on your list, he should back you up with his heart and soul.
Now that you have got all your answers don’t take too much time brooding over again and again. No need to be hysteric, everybody goes through pre wedding jitters, go ahead and start preparing for a new beginning. And let the wedding bells ring.
Love
Dextrous
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