This one goes out for all my girlies, who are seeing someone and still dicey if he has fallen for her or not? Most women derive conclusions from their madly in love instincts, which is not actually bad, but those are more likely to tell you what you want to hear. Is it the truth? No, there is more to it. Don’t just put him in your possession list if you see him getting you chocolates, flowers or a surprise date. Don’t even go by your friends opinion they might have been comparing your guy with their ex’s. Its dangerous. Let MatchmeCupid take you through it, only if you are ready for it. We all know the raw gender are the “programmed creatures” but they are not zombies, they will sway signs your way, grab them. To know, if he is actually digging into you, look for these ulterior signals!
Watch his eyes- Don’t judge him when he is checking out a hot chick, guys are magnetic towards beauty, you know it. Get close enough to see his eyes closely, if his pupils dilates while talking to you he is turned on by you. It clearly says he likes your company. As you talk to him heart to heart watch his eye darts, if he is not looking straight into you eyes he might be lying.
Body language- He may not be expressive or lovey dovey types all the times so try to open your mind and read his body language. While you go out with him and he is sitting opposite to you, if he lean towards you he is interested in you. If while walking he tries to keep up pace with you he want people to know you are with him. He wants to flaunt you. He talks to you eye to eye, baby you are his priority.
Voice calls and text back- It might sound wacky. In this age of smart phones, you will get lot of signals from the way he responds to your calls. This trick tells you a lot about the guy you love. If he is into you he will call you every now and then just to hear your voice. If he is quick with his text replies, he doesn’t want to miss a moment with you. If he is taking time to reply and get back to you, may be his smart phone carries something more interesting than you. Accept it.
Indulges with you- Remembers small details about you that you might have just slipped out in a casual conversation. Be it your favorite color or coffee, he always gets it right. If he is into you he would not mind making a complete ass of himself while accompanying you to a place where he would never go on his own, he wants to spend time with you and nothing gets in his way. He is your guy if mostly you are saying YES to his random meeting plans and not always insisting him.
How is he with friends- He shows interest and spend time with your gals gang? If you just said yes, its time to be glad, he is into you! He wants to know what you like to do, how you talk when you are with your friends. Guys never introduce just any other girl they are seeing to their friends, so if he wants you to meet his friends you are the “special one”. If his friends already know who you are and you hear lines like “heard a lot about you” in the first meeting, he loves everything about you.
He takes one for a team- If he is into you, will always find ways to stuff in “we” or “us” while talking whatever may be the topic. He is eager to go to the places of your choice, even if the ambiance is all pink and scented. Your opinion counts, you are not there to just listen what and what went wrong?
Believes in your dreams- He not only says but believes in your capabilities, he is ready to share responsibilities if you have your career obligations. You are “his super women”, no under ratings here.
To know what lies behind those flattering talks spend as much time as you can with him. Whether it is a dinner date or coffee break. No pestering or pressurizing helps, if he is seriously into you he can’t possibly hide it. If you checked on all the signs listed above, he is your guy. If not, you still have to find your Mr. Perfect.
Written for Matchmecupid, read more articles about dating, love and marriages @ http://matchmecupid.com/blog/
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